I think it's all al life-long battle to find the best way to say how we really feel. We still have trouble with these in particular: I was wrong, I don't know how to show you how much I care, I need help, I am furious at you but I want to make this right. We fill books and novels, short stories and poems, letters, voicemails, post-its, bouquets of flowers, emails, texts, hopeless glances, attempting and practicing how to say it just right. Maybe there is no right way, no fancy way, no easy way to be fully honest and open. Maybe there is no painless way to surrender all of the power to the other person.